One of the most liberating experiences I’ve encountered throughout my exploration of my own body is anal masturbation. I think it’s important to nurture yourself, explore yourself, and enjoy yourself. And learning to love our butt is one of those things we don’t often talk about; but should! I mean, butts are great!
Around 10 years ago, I got down and dirty with anal masturbation, and I must admit at first I was apprehensive. I thought to myself, “is it safe?”, “will it hurt?”, and “am I going to enjoy it?” But I decided to be brave and roll with it. I found the best way to ease tension was to relax and breathe. With plenty of lube and a few drops of patience, I slowly inserted my finger (make sure your nails are cut short and filed!), and let my imagination take me away. Once the finger was in, I learnt that gentle circles and slow taps with my wrist are the best ways to build pleasure.
I then found out that you can use pretty much anything to experience pleasure from anal play – from dildos to plugs to vibrators. Of course, size does matter, just always remember, thumbs down for “too big” and thumbs up for “no bigger than 2 fingers wide”. Make sure you use plenty of lube! Over time, I learnt to continuously add more lube as I pushed my vibrator inside me, which allowed for easy insertion and felt fabulous.
It’s important to note that you should never force anything into your butthole. If it’s not feeling right, it’s time to stop and re-evaluate if it’s what you want. As time has gone on, I’ve discovered more and more ways of pleasing myself using my bum.
Let’s talk prostate: it’s this round, walnut-sized organ located about 3-4″ inches up the anal canal. Some people refer to it as the male g-spot, and it’s one of the most reliable ways to give yourself an orgasm. When you press the prostate, it can easily cause powerful orgasms that are way more pleasurable than penile stimulation alone. This is something that really took me by surprise. I must admit, I was incredibly reluctant and shy when it came to prostate stimulation at first; but now it’s something I can’t get enough of.
When it comes to finding the prostate, I prefer to use a prostate massager as I find this to be one of the most effective tools. Make sure that the massager you’re using is comfy and fits like a glove in your butt hole. Taking it slow and using smooth circular motions did the trick for me and provided me with intense pleasure. You can also combine anal stimulation with other types of sexual play.
There are so many ways to enjoy anal masturbation male. You can experiment with different angles and positions or try anal play alongside oral sex dolls. If you’re particularly frisky, you can see what happens when you add temperature play to your encounter. It’s a great way to heat things up!
Without a doubt, anal masturbation deserves an applause and an afternoon of celebration. Learning to love your butt can bring various waves of pleasure – from tingles to waves of orgasmic bliss. It just a matter of being brave and learning what feels good! If you’ve not explored anal play yet, give it a shot – and let your booty take you away.